The only way to know that you have grown in life is when you have helped others to grow. You expand when you move away from the individual to the collective and adopt a vision that sees and works for a broader spectrum.
So just let yourself expand. 😊
Problems and conflicts are a part of life. Often we get stuck with them and don’t look towards finding the solutions. The way out is to shift your attention away from them and focus on the solutions.
Think good, do good but never look upon others to tell you that you are doing good. Peoples opinion is not what pushes you to do good, it’s the sincere urge to make a difference that makes you do noble deeds.
So just be sincere in your thoughts as well as your actions.
Not all people in this world are born to rule. Some are born just to be cool;)
The path to liberation is through inner transformation.
What you seek is yours to get until the time when you give up on the effort required to achieve it. Strive sincerely and even heaven becomes yours to see.